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      02-13-2020, 11:20 AM   #5611
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I'm not understanding why you guys have to be friends with someone you just see for sex. Do it & send her home or leave if you're at her place.

Not everyone is going to be or has to be your "friend" Based on this thread, we all know most of them are mindless cunts anyway. Is that the kind of friend you need?

Now, I am obviously not including women you view as LTR material or go out & do fun stuff with.
I got my share of casual sex in the '80s and '90s. I played in bands in the bars around the Midwest, and took advantage of the various social opportunities that came my way. But I was drunk most of the time, so I was numb to the pointlessness of it all. I just can't do it now. I don't have any moral objection to it, it just stopped being fun or exciting a long time ago.
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I asked once before if he was as charming in person as he is online. I'm thinking yes.....
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I asked once before if he was as charming in person as he is online. I'm thinking yes.....
Who knows...maybe he gets his anger release by posting here on BP. You can never tell how closely someone's online "personality" matches their face-to-face personality. Some people seem to craft an online persona that's an alter ego or perhaps an idealized version of themselves.

Several years ago I was a couple months into dating a really articulate and interesting woman when she introduced me to her online persona. She had adopted the term "Amygdala Whisperer" for this persona and it was as woo-y as it sounds. I was shocked, and incredibly turned off. I subsequently discovered that previous to that she had "hung out her shingle" as an online relationship coach for hire. Currently I'm told she's trying to carve herself out a niche as some sort of emotional coach for new or soon-to-be retirees. Mind you, she has no training or credentials or legitimate experience as a counselor; she's written a bunch of blog posts that nobody ever read, so that's out...even if they had been read. I guess when you're a narcissist (she ticked all the boxes on that) you just know stuff. You don't need to train or study, because you already know it all. I dumped her right after that shocking revelation. I later found out she had an autistic son in another state whom she had left there with his dad when he was 12 to re-unite with her old high school boyfriend after running into him on Facebook. She was a real piece of work, that one.

My point is, someone's online persona (or personae) may be shockingly different from their "real" personality...if they even still have an intact and integral one.
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I got my share of casual sex in the '80s and '90s. I played in bands in the bars around the Midwest, and took advantage of the various social opportunities that came my way. But I was drunk most of the time, so I was numb to the pointlessness of it all. I just can't do it now. I don't have any moral objection to it, it just stopped being fun or exciting a long time ago.
Makes perfect sense & I can certainly relate.
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I asked once before if he was as charming in person as he is online. I'm thinking yes.....
Who are you referring to?
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I asked once before if he was as charming in person as he is online. I'm thinking yes.....
Who are you referring to?
I am going to assume she means you LMAO?
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I am going to assume she means you LMAO?
Then it looks like a classic case of pot meet kettle & outing herself as quite judgmental & self-righteous. Don't know why she has a hard on for me nor do I care. She's on my ignore list now. Bye Felicia!
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This has to be my fav thread in Bimmerpost. Everyone relates in one way or another, gives reassurance, and everyone is chill af lol!

Cheers to everyone here !!!
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This has to be my fav thread in Bimmerpost. Everyone relates in one way or another, gives reassurance, and everyone is chill af lol!

Cheers to everyone here !!!
Yeah, we're brought together by hardship I suppose you could say - the wild roller coaster ride of dating. I'm happy to have a space to talk about it. Folks here are thoughtful and funny and supportive. I'm very grateful for this.
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going to a new eye-talian restaurant with my honey for VD tonight. some wine, pasta, something parmigiana and then sausage later.
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going to a new eye-talian restaurant with my honey for VD tonight. some wine, pasta, something parmigiana and then sausage later.

"Take the canoli."

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going to a new eye-talian restaurant with my honey for VD tonight. some wine, pasta, something parmigiana and then sausage later.
Filling her holes with cannoli cream....ATTA BOY!!!!
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Yeah, we're brought together by hardship I suppose you could say - the wild roller coaster ride of dating. I'm happy to have a space to talk about it. Folks here are thoughtful and funny and supportive. I'm very grateful for this.
Except for me, I'm the villain.

Do I get a cool comic book villain name now then?
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Except for me, I'm the villain.

Do I get a cool comic book villain name now then?
Not sure who you are in person, but if you are this angry and dismissive in real life it has lots to do with how others treat you.
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Except for me, I'm the villain.

Do I get a cool comic book villain name now then?
Not sure who you are in person, but if you are this angry and dismissive in real life it has lots to do with how others treat you.
I think he mentioned you were blocked so he can't see your message :/
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I think he mentioned you were blocked so he can't see your message :/
I know. But I'm pretty sure he can now that you quoted me.
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Yeah, we're brought together by hardship I suppose you could say - the wild roller coaster ride of dating. I'm happy to have a space to talk about it. Folks here are thoughtful and funny and supportive. I'm very grateful for this.
This. Normally, I would be loathe to open up to others but this is a safe space LOL!! J/K...you can get real advice here because it's unfiltered and, in many ways, more compassionate because we have self-selected to be here as well as participate. It's good to know that I'm not the only one who has had nightmare dates.

Did I tell you about the one that I'll just call, "Stick it in, Stick it in!"? She also led with a comment about anal.

I'd forgotten about the event because it took place almost 20 months ago.
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Captain Hoggin'? Since you bang fat chicks?

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"Heavy Duty Rudy" since you like the big girls.
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