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      02-25-2020, 12:53 PM   #5809
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Love these jackass women that call themselves a "free spirit". Aka lazy with no ambition or passion.
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Love these jackass women that call themselves a "free spirit". Aka lazy with no ambition or passion.
Free spirit = I don't have a clue WTF I want to do in life, want zero obligations or things holding me down, and also want zero accountability for any of my actions.

Also see: narcissist
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Alright guys.... if you match with someone and talk for like two week or so and realize she probably isn't for you but she'd like to meet up and go on a date, would y'all go? I have not told her we probably won't work, but I know for a fact we would smash first date from our conversations and how they have been going.

I just feel like I'd be wasting time, even if I get her in the sheets. And as pennsiveguy pointed out, time is money.

Would y'all honestly go?
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Alright guys.... if you match with someone and talk for like two week or so and realize she probably isn't for you but she'd like to meet up and go on a date, would y'all go? I have not told her we probably won't work, but I know for a fact we would smash first date from our conversations and how they have been going.

I just feel like I'd be wasting time, even if I get her in the sheets. And as pennsiveguy pointed out, time is money.

Would y'all honestly go?
I'll leave the "Fuck yeah, go bang the ho!" response to FuriouslyFast , since nobody can say such a thing nearly as eloquently as he can.

If it were me and I was looking for something long-term and knew that this person had zero long-term potential, I'd probably make a graceful exit. If you have sex, everything changes in terms of expectations and perceived commitment. Even when it's mutually agreed that there are no strings attached. It's human biology. I just don't like dealing with the mess of getting dis-entangled with someone who may have misinterpreted my intentions, no matter how clear I thought I made them. I like things tidy, and I don't like anyone getting bummed out if it can be avoided. Just my $.02.
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Alright guys.... if you match with someone and talk for like two week or so and realize she probably isn't for you but she'd like to meet up and go on a date, would y'all go? I have not told her we probably won't work, but I know for a fact we would smash first date from our conversations and how they have been going.

I just feel like I'd be wasting time, even if I get her in the sheets. And as pennsiveguy pointed out, time is money.

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Alright guys.... if you match with someone and talk for like two week or so and realize she probably isn't for you but she'd like to meet up and go on a date, would y'all go? I have not told her we probably won't work, but I know for a fact we would smash first date from our conversations and how they have been going.

I just feel like I'd be wasting time, even if I get her in the sheets. And as pennsiveguy pointed out, time is money.

Would y'all honestly go?
If she is 9-10 I would go and enjoy the experience. If average-looking be honest and tell her that you don't think this is a good match.
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      02-26-2020, 12:21 PM   #5817
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Alright guys.... if you match with someone and talk for like two week or so and realize she probably isn't for you but she'd like to meet up and go on a date, would y'all go? I have not told her we probably won't work, but I know for a fact we would smash first date from our conversations and how they have been going.

I just feel like I'd be wasting time, even if I get her in the sheets. And as pennsiveguy pointed out, time is money.

Would y'all honestly go?
I'll leave the "Fuck yeah, go bang the ho!" response to FuriouslyFast , since nobody can say such a thing nearly as eloquently as he can.

If it were me and I was looking for something long-term and knew that this person had zero long-term potential, I'd probably make a graceful exit. If you have sex, everything changes in terms of expectations and perceived commitment. Even when it's mutually agreed that there are no strings attached. It's human biology. I just don't like dealing with the mess of getting dis-entangled with someone who may have misinterpreted my intentions, no matter how clear I thought I made them. I like things tidy, and I don't like anyone getting bummed out if it can be avoided. Just my $.02.
My exact thoughts lol. I am the same way, I know what happens with the attachments after that night. She will feel it's much more, when I clearly know it isn't.

To the other comment above. She's no 9-10, 6.5-7 tops lol. Some good ol' head wouldn't hurt though

I know FuriouslyFast will jump in here and call me a bitch for not 'bangin that ho' lol, let's see what happens. Should I atleast go on a date to meet her? Might be chill in person.
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If it were me and I was looking for something long-term and knew that this person had zero long-term potential, I'd probably make a graceful exit. If you have sex, everything changes in terms of expectations and perceived commitment. Even when it's mutually agreed that there are no strings attached. It's human biology. I just don't like dealing with the mess of getting dis-entangled with someone who may have misinterpreted my intentions, no matter how clear I thought I made them. I like things tidy, and I don't like anyone getting bummed out if it can be avoided. Just my $.02.
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Free spirit = I don't have a clue WTF I want to do in life, want zero obligations or things holding me down, and also want zero accountability for any of my actions.

Also see: narcissist
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My exact thoughts lol. I am the same way, I know what happens with the attachments after that night. She will feel it's much more, when I clearly know it isn't.

To the other comment above. She's no 9-10, 6.5-7 tops lol. Some good ol' head wouldn't hurt though

I know FuriouslyFast will jump in here and call me a bitch for not 'bangin that ho' lol, let's see what happens. Should I atleast go on a date to meet her? Might be chill in person.

If you really know it won't go past one date........then
I wouldn't.

But I'm old school and really have to see them in the flesh as texting and even talking on the phone can be misleading if they are nervous.

But like I said, I like to meet them. After that, I'm pretty good in judging very quickly and would end it after coffee or something small.
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My exact thoughts lol. I am the same way, I know what happens with the attachments after that night. She will feel it's much more, when I clearly know it isn't.

To the other comment above. She's no 9-10, 6.5-7 tops lol. Some good ol' head wouldn't hurt though

I know FuriouslyFast will jump in here and call me a bitch for not 'bangin that ho' lol, let's see what happens. Should I atleast go on a date to meet her? Might be chill in person.

If you really know it won't go past one date........then
I wouldn't.

But I'm old school and really have to see them in the flesh as texting and even talking on the phone can be misleading if they are nervous.

But like I said, I like to meet them. After that, I'm pretty good in judging very quickly and would end it after coffee or something small.
Right. Not going to dinner with this girl, coffee will be sufficient if I end up meeting her.
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Alright guys.... if you match with someone and talk for like two week or so and realize she probably isn't for you but she'd like to meet up and go on a date, would y'all go? I have not told her we probably won't work, but I know for a fact we would smash first date from our conversations and how they have been going.

I just feel like I'd be wasting time, even if I get her in the sheets. And as pennsiveguy pointed out, time is money.

Would y'all honestly go?
First, you're doing it wrong with talking for weeks before meeting. Set the meeting up within an hour of exchanging numbers!!! If she has excuses etc, move on. She's not interested & wasting your time.

In this case, is she attractive enough to sit through a drink & then bang? If so, go meet her. However, make her come to you. For now, I live in a town with a happening main drag so I can just walk to bars & food. So I have them come to my town & I walk there already buzzed
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Right. Not going to dinner with this girl, coffee will be sufficient if I end up meeting her.
Cut this coffee shit out, kids!! Meet for a drink!
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Alright guys.... if you match with someone and talk for like two week or so and realize she probably isn't for you but she'd like to meet up and go on a date, would y'all go? I have not told her we probably won't work, but I know for a fact we would smash first date from our conversations and how they have been going.

I just feel like I'd be wasting time, even if I get her in the sheets. And as pennsiveguy pointed out, time is money.

Would y'all honestly go?
Why waste her time when you know it won't go past getting laid a few times?
I just find it hypocritical to shit on ""free spirit"" women and act the same way
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Why waste her time when you know it won't go past getting laid a few times?
I just find it hypocritical to shit on ""free spirit"" women and act the same way
You never know what's going to happen. They might click. I have met some women that I thought I'd get along great with...opposite happened. I have also met several that I thought would be a waste of my time...we clicked!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

Also, this is not the free spirit thing
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Any worthwhile new(ish) dating sites or apps to try these days?

Taking a break from Match after my latest ban
POF, Bumble & Tinder are a joke & Hinge is not doing anything for me. CMB was a joke too.
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Taking a break from Match after my latest ban
POF, Bumble & Tinder are a joke & Hinge is not doing anything for me. CMB was a joke too.
POF is useless, way too many spam accounts or women just promoting their instagrams and "premium" snapchats.
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POF, Bumble & Tinder are a joke & Hinge is not doing anything for me. CMB was a joke too.
Try Zoosk.
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Try Zoosk.
That's a pay site if you wanna talk to anyone. You ever use it? I have read bad reviews that it's a bunch of fake accounts to suck you in.
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That's a pay site if you wanna talk to anyone. You ever use it? I have read bad reviews that it's a bunch of fake accounts to suck you in.
I do. I've met at least a dozen 9-10's there in the past 2 years.
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