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      03-02-2021, 01:01 PM   #8251
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After 20+ years, yes, she has made mistakes. Just because SHE doesn't like a particular tree in the yard (MY domain) doesn't mean she should call someone to kill my tree and rip it out.

There are more decisions that are made in a vacuum, and then I get treated as one of her children when I want to have a discussion on the decision she has already made. We are SUPPOSED to be a team.
There may be no "I" in team, but there certainly is a "me".

Best of luck! I pick the hills I want to die on. Surprisingly, there are few hills good enough for me, so its fairly rare. We usually compromise because we are a team.
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I spoke to pennsiveguy Sunday evening to let him know it was probably coming and I feel completely relieved that it is done.

This is how I know it was the right thing to do.
Sorry to hear what happened man, hope you're doing okay

How is pennsiveguy doing? I miss seeing him around here
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Sorry to hear what happened man, hope you're doing okay

How is pennsiveguy doing? I miss seeing him around here
Thanks! I'm good...more relieved because I knew it wasn't the right relationship!!

Pennsiveguy is doing well! I will tell him you asked about him!
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After 20+ years, yes, she has made mistakes. Just because SHE doesn't like a particular tree in the yard (MY domain) doesn't mean she should call someone to kill my tree and rip it out.

There are more decisions that are made in a vacuum, and then I get treated as one of her children when I want to have a discussion on the decision she has already made. We are SUPPOSED to be a team.
Wait, wut? It concerns a tree in the yard that she would get rid of it?
Even if you are master of your domain I assume that you had talked to her to plant this poultrytree before it got done, aint? When you live into a household where all decisions should and had made as team, this hadnt occure.
But I know women who treat their partners sometimes like their childs when something went wrong.
When Im the next time onto my way to Santa Barbara I would chime in when passing Oxnard to be your bystander at anger management
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      03-03-2021, 09:51 AM   #8255
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Wait, wut? It concerns a tree in the yard that she would get rid of it?
Even if you are master of your domain I assume that you had talked to her to plant this poultrytree before it got done, aint? When you live into a household where all decisions should and had made as team, this hadnt occure.
But I know women who treat their partners sometimes like their childs when something went wrong.
When Im the next time onto my way to Santa Barbara I would chime in when passing Oxnard to be your bystander at anger management
Just wave at Santa as you pass by on 101, I'll hear you
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Do you really think its acceptable to not text nearly all weekend and then at 9:30 AM this morning text "coffee and breakfast before I head out?"

I've already eaten. Like who does he think he is? He can't honestly think I'm available 24/7. I may be laying around in my pajamas currently, but no. That kinda ticked me off a bit. Am I wrong?
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Do you really think its acceptable to not text nearly all weekend and then at 9:30 AM this morning text "coffee and breakfast before I head out?"

I've already eaten. Like who does he think he is? He can't honestly think I'm available 24/7. I may be laying around in my pajamas currently, but no. That kinda ticked me off a bit. Am I wrong?
Iíve a friend that thinks this way. Quite vein, very self centered and worse, wholly unaware he is this way. May be a similar person, may not.
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Iíve a friend that thinks this way. Quite vein, very self centered and worse, wholly unaware he is this way. May be a similar person, may not.
I feel like itís in poor taste in his part. We havenít met yet. Been texting for about 2 weeks. Heís a surgeon so I know his schedule can be a bit hectic. He doesnít have the typical 9-5 like I do. We text every day. He suggested on Wednesday that we meet up this weekend in the evening for dinner and drinks. I said that Iíd like that. We never set an official time. He didnít respond to my text on Friday. Barely texted me yesterday, and then morning sends me the above referenced text. Just no. Sorry, have other plans now. He can try again next weekend, if Iím free.
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I feel like itís in poor taste in his part. We havenít met yet. Been texting for about 2 weeks. Heís a surgeon so I know his schedule can be a bit hectic. He doesnít have the typical 9-5 like I do. We text every day. He suggested on Wednesday that we meet up this weekend in the evening for dinner and drinks. I said that Iíd like that. We never set an official time. He didnít respond to my text on Friday. Barely texted me yesterday, and then morning sends me the above referenced text. Just no. Sorry, have other plans now. He can try again next weekend, if Iím free.
With more context, this sounds more like something or someone took precedent and that ďthingĒ is now gone.
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With more context, this sounds more like something or someone took precedent and that “thing” is now gone.
He says he was with his friends. Which I believe him as he lives an hour away and has a condo in New Orleans to escape the small town where he lives. He comes to New Orleans often enough to purchase a second home here. But it's the fact that he asked to take me to dinner, so I made sure I didn't have plans Friday or Saturday night, and now he wants to see me before he heads out this afternoon. Like no, you're not going to try to see me for the first time last minute. I have plans with my girlfriend to get drinks this afternoon and other shit I need to get done this morning, since I had previously cleared my schedule. It's probably an oversight on his part, but he's just going to have to wait to meet me, if we still continue to text this week.

I'm not wrong for saying no, right?
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He says he was with his friends. Which I believe him as he lives an hour away and has a condo in New Orleans to escape the small town where he lives. He comes to New Orleans often enough to purchase a second home here. But it's the fact that he asked to take me to dinner, so I made sure I didn't have plans Friday or Saturday night, and now he wants to see me before he heads out this afternoon. Like no, you're not going to try to see for the first time last minute. I have plans with my girlfriend to get drinks this afternoon and other shit I need to get done this weekend since I had previously cleared my schedule. It's probably an oversight on his part, but he's just going to have to wait to meet me, if we still continue to text this week.

I'm not wrong for saying no, right?
I donít think youíre wrong at all. My perspective is all relationships, especially romantic ones, require some level of sacrifice from all parties. Seems in this scenerio from the insight we have, it is only you who sacrificed.
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He says he was with his friends. Which I believe him as he lives an hour away and has a condo in New Orleans to escape the small town where he lives. He comes to New Orleans often enough to purchase a second home here. But it's the fact that he asked to take me to dinner, so I made sure I didn't have plans Friday or Saturday night, and now he wants to see me before he heads out this afternoon. Like no, you're not going to try to see me for the first time last minute. I have plans with my girlfriend to get drinks this afternoon and other shit I need to get done this morning, since I had previously cleared my schedule. It's probably an oversight on his part, but he's just going to have to wait to meet me, if we still continue to text this week.

I'm not wrong for saying no, right?
Not wrong at all.

You might even tell him you'd love to, but when he asked you to have dinner you moved everything from Friday and Saturday night into Sunday ....
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He says he was with his friends. Which I believe him as he lives an hour away and has a condo in New Orleans to escape the small town where he lives. He comes to New Orleans often enough to purchase a second home here. But it's the fact that he asked to take me to dinner, so I made sure I didn't have plans Friday or Saturday night, and now he wants to see me before he heads out this afternoon. Like no, you're not going to try to see me for the first time last minute. I have plans with my girlfriend to get drinks this afternoon and other shit I need to get done this morning, since I had previously cleared my schedule. It's probably an oversight on his part, but he's just going to have to wait to meet me, if we still continue to text this week.

I'm not wrong for saying no, right?
He's a surgeon and he lives out of town. It's not unreasonable that he was tied up with friends. You aren't wrong for saying no...no one is available all the time.
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I donít think youíre wrong at all. My perspective is all relationships, especially romantic ones, require some level of sacrifice from all parties.
This. People make time for the things they want to make time for.

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He can try again next weekend, if Iím free.
If you agree to do this you are condoning said behavior. My $.02, do as you please.
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This. People make time for the things they want to make time for.



If you agree to do this you are condoning said behavior. My $.02, do as you please.
Already deleted him out of my phone. He's too slow
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This dude's Bumble profile reads:

Prompt: Perfect first date
His answer: Steak and BJ

Prompt: Turn offs
His answer: Squirters


Like WTF........ how do these guys ever expect someone to swipe right
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This dude's Bumble profile reads:

Prompt: Perfect first date
His answer: Steak and BJ

Prompt: Turn offs
His answer: Squirters


Like WTF........ how do these guys ever expect someone to swipe right
I think it's what they call the spray and pray technique. If a guy on a dating site sends 100 messages to women saying "wanna fuck?" all it takes is one to say yes and he's achieved his goal - and probably pissed off 99 other women who get sick of the junk they receive. But the one who said yes means he and other men will keep trying it. A friend at university said he's done it in person at a night club - approached small groups of women, chatted briefly, and then asked "anyone want a fuck?" - he said he's been slapped and had drinks tossed on him, but he's also left with a fair number of them too.

This guy is just being honest up front. Probably a turn off to 99% of women, but one woman will be hungry and horny and decide "why the fuck not" and then he gets what he wants.
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I think it's what they call the spray and pray technique. If a guy on a dating site sends 100 messages to women saying "wanna fuck?" all it takes is one to say yes and he's achieved his goal - and probably pissed off 99 other women who get sick of the junk they receive. But the one who said yes means he and other men will keep trying it. A friend at university said he's done it in person at a night club - approached small groups of women, chatted briefly, and then asked "anyone want a fuck?" - he said he's been slapped and had drinks tossed on him, but he's also left with a fair number of them too.

This guy is just being honest up front. Probably a turn off to 99% of women, but one woman will be hungry and horny and decide "why the fuck not" and then he gets what he wants.
And then there are the ones with charming profiles and pictures, you meet them and they just want to fuck. Why are guys such fuck boys?! Iím over it. Get a flesh light.
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And then there are the ones with charming profiles and pictures, you meet them and they just want to fuck. Why are guys such fuck boys?! Iím over it. Get a flesh light.
Ah yes - the sad life of the good looking guy. They're fuckboys because they know they can. Same thing - chat to 100 women who are all swooning over their photo, meet them, and one will agree. Score!

Women "don't want players" but fall for them all the time because they want good looking charming guys - who know they can play women. It's a vicious cycle.
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Ah yes - the sad life of the good looking guy. They're fuckboys because they know they can. Same thing - chat to 100 women who are all swooning over their photo, meet them, and one will agree. Score!

Women "don't want players" but fall for them all the time because they want good looking charming guys - who know they can play women. It's a vicious cycle.
And the argument from the other side:

“Who do all women just want to talk and talk and talk and....”

Rather than lament the opposite, embrace it or your lifetime supply of batteries and pints of ice cream. We are both programmed and can alter it some, but our primitive nature will always win out.

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Ah yes - the sad life of the good looking guy. They're fuckboys because they know they can. Same thing - chat to 100 women who are all swooning over their photo, meet them, and one will agree. Score!

Women "don't want players" but fall for them all the time because they want good looking charming guys - who know they can play women. It's a vicious cycle.
He was better looking in his photos. Itís not fair to post a photo from 2016 as your main profile picture. There needs to be a 6 month limit, especially since 2020 and people (not me) have gained the ďquarantine 15.Ē
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