[Sara]

Originally Posted by TiMSport

I may have missed something but did your third date (Tequila bar) not go well? Lol.

No, this is the other guy from two weeks ago. The guy that was rude to the server.

I know I seem materialistic but this is my favorite jacket.

I could just pay Uber to pick it up for me. only $55

[TiMSport]

Doh! Lol. I understand now. Forgot about that other guy, the one we warned you should stay away from

[Sara]

Originally Posted by TiMSport

Doh! Lol. I understand now. Forgot about that other guy, the one we warned you should stay away from

Yeah, thanks guys

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Sara

MKSixer must be having a grand ole time. Waiting on the details....

Originally Posted by UncleWede

Is he taking prancing lessons??? Lucky bastard

I'm back!

I had a FANTASTIC TIME!

I got a suite at Hotel Zaza in the Museum district and wore a cobalt blue Zegna suit to meet her in the Monarch Bar in the hotel. I got a corner booth/table and tipped the hostess to escort her to my table when she arrived. She walked up in a form fitting LBD which was INCREDIBLE. Sara has seen her figure and knows that I'm being 100% truthful when I say, "Daaaayyyuuuuuummmmm!!!!!" She has long black hair, light brown eyes and cafe au lait color skin, much like my own but a shade or so lighter. In other words, to me, perfect. She is 5'-4" and about 120lbs and no adipose tissue.

Anywhere.

We hugged when we met and I seated her on the bench portion of the bar next to me and presented her with flowers. She was floored because she didn't know where they came from as I hid them behind the accessories on the ledge immediately behind our seating area. Pretty smooth if I do say so, myself.

We have been talking and FT-ing for the last 3 weeks or so and the conversation just flowed. We ordered heavy hors d'oeuvre along with a couple of drinks. She had a Moscow Mule and I selected a Gin and Tonic with Boodles Gin and 2 limes. We continued to share more information about each other and were affectionate a couple of times in the bar. That's all from this night.

The next day we had brunch in the hotel which was very enjoyable and talked quite a bit more about our respective goals and desires in a relationship. Thereafter, went to the Museum and saw the Pompeii exhibit which I highly recommend to everyone, Death by Natural Causes...which I don't recommend, and the Cockrell Butterfly Center...which I highly recommend. All in all we were there about 4 hours and had a fantastic time. She saved all of the tickets and receipts from the hotel to commemorate our first date.

Next up was dinner at one of the major steak houses. She was dressed in a silver minidress by some designer I've never heard of but is apparently all-the-rage because 3 ladies commented on her dress. I wore a black suit by Joseph Abboud with peaked lapels and a crisp white shirt. Something neutral and complimentary to her attire. Dinner was amazing and the conversation was fantastic. She is extremely intelligent and has a global view on world affairs and leans conservative, like myself. That's all from this night.

The next day, brunch again and an early departure for home. I'll be back in two weeks and she will come here the first week of May.

Things are looking rather good.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

I'm back!

I had a FANTASTIC TIME!

I got a suite at Hotel Zaza in the Museum district and wore a cobalt blue Zegna suit to meet her in the Monarch Bar in the hotel. I got a corner booth/table and tipped the hostess to escort her to my table when she arrived. She walked up in a form fitting LBD which was INCREDIBLE. Sara has seen her figure and knows that I'm being 100% truthful when I say, "Daaaayyyuuuuuummmmm!!!!!" She has long black hair, light brown eyes and cafe au lait color skin, much like my own but a shade or so lighter. In other words, to me, perfect. She is 5'-4" and about 120lbs and no adipose tissue.

Anywhere.

We hugged when we met and I seated her on the bench portion of the bar next to me and presented her with flowers. She was floored because she didn't know where they came from as I hid them behind the accessories on the ledge immediately behind our seating area. Pretty smooth if I do say so, myself.

We have been talking and FT-ing for the last 3 weeks or so and the conversation just flowed. We ordered heavy hors d'oeuvre along with a couple of drinks. She had a Moscow Mule and I selected a Gin and Tonic with Boodles Gin and 2 limes. We continued to share more information about each other and were affectionate a couple of times in the bar. That's all from this night.

The next day we had brunch in the hotel which was very enjoyable and talked quite a bit more about our respective goals and desires in a relationship. Thereafter, went to the Museum and saw the Pompeii exhibit which I highly recommend to everyone, Death by Natural Causes...which I don't recommend, and the Cockrell Butterfly Center...which I highly recommend. All in all we were there about 4 hours and had a fantastic time. She saved all of the tickets and receipts from the hotel to commemorate our first date.

Next up was dinner at one of the major steak houses. She was dressed in a silver minidress by some designer I've never heard of but is apparently all-the-rage because 3 ladies commented on her dress. I wore a black suit by Joseph Abboud with peaked lapels and a crisp white shirt. Something neutral and complimentary to her attire. Dinner was amazing and the conversation was fantastic. She is extremely intelligent and has a global view on world affairs and leans conservative, like myself. That's all from this night.

The next day, brunch again and an early departure for home. I'll be back in two weeks and she will come here the first week of May.

Things are looking rather good.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Sara

Thanks!!!!

Thanks for being in my corner!! It was a little nerve wracking, to be certain, before we met!!

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Thanks!!!!

Thanks for being in my corner!! It was a little nerve wracking, to be certain, before we met!!

No risk no reward!

I got you

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

I'm so fucking mad at myself. I left my favorite green utility fitted petite jacket at the other guy's house when I met him for brunch...... I tore my place up this morning looking for it. I checked my linen closet twice. Ironically he texted me this morning "Happy Easter. Think I have a jacket you left if you want me to put it in my mailbox or something?" No, dont put it the fucking mailbox. Ugh, now I have to drive 40 miles one way to pick it up. And now he's not answering to give me a time to be able to get it from him.

I would just order another one but I cannot find it anywhere online. #firstworldproblems. I hope he gives it back to me.

Make sure you have all your stuff before telling someone you dont want to see them again.

Interesting......

Do tell. Aside from successful dates with a guy who you were all too over from the get go, because of his schedule, I feel the real story lies within the holes in the details with this small side story.

Congrats on successful dates, now spill the story on said jacket. Key bit of unreleased info that I'm targeting - If it was cold enough for a jacket when you got there, it wasn't as cold when you left? And the cold upon leaving wasn't enough to remind you to get your jacket? There is soooooo much more to this story. Not to mention, why where you at the asshole's house again?

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Interesting......

Do tell. Aside from successful dates with a guy who you were all too over from the get go, because of his schedule, I feel the real story lies within the holes in the details with this small side story.

Congrats on successful dates, now spill the story on said jacket. Key bit of unreleased info that I'm targeting - If it was cold enough for a jacket when you got there, it wasn't as cold when you left? And the cold upon leaving wasn't enough to remind you to get your jacket? There is soooooo much more to this story. Not to mention, why where you at the asshole's house again?

I just spit my coffee out.

[Buug959]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I just spit my coffee out.

[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Interesting......

Do tell. Aside from successful dates with a guy who you were all too over from the get go, because of his schedule, I feel the real story lies within the holes in the details with this small side story.

Congrats on successful dates, now spill the story on said jacket. Key bit of unreleased info that I'm targeting - If it was cold enough for a jacket when you got there, it wasn't as cold when you left? And the cold upon leaving wasn't enough to remind you to get your jacket? There is soooooo much more to this story. Not to mention, why where you at the asshole's house again?

Dead easy to forget something like a jumper or a jacket when you're distracted while the first thought is to leave no matter the temp.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by M5Rick

Dead easy to forget something like a jumper or a jacket when you're distracted while the first thought is to leave no matter the temp.

Indeed. I also used to have a girl that would intentionally leave things like, say a jacket at my house. Which would give her a reason to drive back. She had a 60 mile trip my place. Never hesitated to come get her "jacket" though.....or the ear ring, or the bracelet.....or the dignity. Regardless of what she left, she knew what she would get.

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Indeed. I also used to have a girl that would intentionally leave things like, say a jacket at my house. Which would give her a reason to drive back. She had a 60 mile trip my place. Never hesitated to come get her "jacket" though.....or the ear ring, or the bracelet.....or the dignity. Regardless of what she left, she knew what she would get.

If I only knew to pull this move back in my single days

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

If I only knew to pull this move back in my single days

Co-stanza!

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Interesting......

Do tell. Aside from successful dates with a guy who you were all too over from the get go, because of his schedule, I feel the real story lies within the holes in the details with this small side story.

Congrats on successful dates, now spill the story on said jacket. Key bit of unreleased info that I'm targeting - If it was cold enough for a jacket when you got there, it wasn't as cold when you left? And the cold upon leaving wasn't enough to remind you to get your jacket? There is soooooo much more to this story. Not to mention, why where you at the asshole's house again?

I'm very confused. Where did I state I ever went there twice? I've only been there once. He asked me to brunch during our first date, so 8 hours later I met him for brunch. It was chilly in the morning and I wore a very light (my favorite) jacket and it warmed up while outside for two hours at brunch. Enough for me to get a sunburn. We took his car to brunch so naturally when we got back to his house, I walked inside with my jacket in my arms, set it down to use the restroom and was ready to leave and forgot it because it had warmed up to high 70's that day and I just wanted to get home.

It's been raining and pretty cold here the past two weeks so I haven't had to use it. Two weeks later (yesterday) I realized I didn't have my jacket and now I want it back.

How is that hard to understand and what holes are you missing?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

I'm very confused. Where did I state I ever went there twice? I've only been there once. He asked me to brunch during our first date, so 8 hours later I met him for brunch. It was chilly in the morning and I wore a very light (my favorite) jacket and it warmed up while outside for two hours at brunch. Enough for me to get a sunburn. We took his car to brunch so naturally when we got back to his house, I walked inside with my jacket in my arms, set it down to use the restroom and was ready to leave and forgot it because it had warmed up to high 70's that day and I just wanted to get home.

It's been raining and pretty cold here the past two weeks so I haven't had to use it. Two weeks later (yesterday) I realized I didn't have my jacket and now I want it back.

How is that hard to understand and what holes are you missing?

Now we are both confused. I don't recall stating that you went to his house twice. I wasn't asking for a synopses of every detail, just the details you left out.

So you drove 40 miles to his house for a second date, to take his car to brunch? So did you drive 40 miles for the first date, then 40 miles back 8 hours later? None of it is hard to understand. I don't miss many holes, I just notice when they are there and when they aren't.

You don't have to reply to any of this. I just like busting chops in general.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Now we are both confused. I don't recall stating that you went to his house twice. I wasn't asking for a synopses of every detail, just the details you left out.

So you drove 40 miles to his house for a second date, to take his car to brunch? So did you drive 40 miles for the first date, then 40 miles back 8 hours later? None of it is hard to understand. I don't miss many holes, I just notice when they are there and when they aren't.

You don't have to reply to any of this. I just like busting chops in general.

Good lord lol

No, he came to me for the first date in New Orleans. During the first date while he was in New Orleans, he asked me to go to brunch where he lives, I felt pressured and said yes (I know I shouldn't have, but I did, oh well). So in the morning, I got up and drove to his house. Parked my car at his house. I dont know his area very well so he drove us to brunch in his car. We ate brunch. Sat outside for a few hours at the restaurant, I took my jacket off because it warmed up and got hot. Had it in my arms on the way back to his house so I could get in my car and go back home. I hope that makes better sense now.

and by you saying "Not to mention, why where you at the asshole's house again?" gives me the impression you thought I was there twice.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

Good lord lol

No, he came to me for the first date in New Orleans. During the first date while he was in New Orleans, he asked me to go to brunch where he lives, I felt pressured and said yes (I know I shouldn't have, but I did, oh well). So in the morning, I got up and drove to his house. Parked my car at his house. I dont know his area very well so he drove us to brunch in his car. We ate brunch. Sat outside for a few hours at the restaurant, I took my jacket off because it warmed up and got hot. Had it in my arms on the way back to his house so I could get in my car and go back home. I hope that makes better sense now.

and by you saying "Not to mention, why where you at the asshole's house again?" gives me the impression you thought I was there twice.

Suuuuure Sara.

The use of "again" was used in the sense of "additionally" at the end of the sentence. Not indicating that you had been there twice but asking as in the sense of "Again, why where you doing this?" Perhaps I should have asked my question in a different manner.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Suuuuure Sara.

The use of "again" was used in the sense of "additionally" at the end of the sentence. Not indicating that you had been there twice but asking as in the sense of "Again, why where you doing this?" Perhaps I should have asked my question in a different manner.

Y’all already knew we met up twice, I had previously stated that.

At any rate, I’m sending an Uber to pick it up and bring it to me. He’s being an ass now and I can’t be bothered with seeing him face to face again. All I asked for was my jacket back, very politely and he’s being a jerk.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

Y’all already knew we met up twice, I had previously stated that.

At any rate, I’m sending an Uber to pick it up and bring it to me. He’s being an ass now and I can’t be bothered with seeing him face to face again. All I asked for was my jacket back, very politely and he’s being a jerk.

Honestly, I didn't pay attention to the fact that you met up twice. I read, scan, make mental notes of what to comment on and move on. I offer advice on what I see that is important to others and the rest of my posts are basically to give people shit and see if they return said shit. It makes for fun banter. As to the details of your dates or love life, I don't really pay attention to. Not because I'm an asshole....I mean, I'm that too but case in point. The surgeon will be gone in 3 weeks.

Sending an uber to pick up a jacket that you left? I read this as paying someone to take care of an oversight on your end. No respect here. If I make a mistake, forget something, etc. I have to bite the bullet and do whatever necessary to make it right. Choices are: go get the jacket, buy a new one or forget it. He even offered to put it in the mail box so you didn't have to see him, but you can't be bothered to make the drive to get what you want so you pay someone to do it? We as men call these "bitch moves" when men do it. Not sure if women have names for stuff like this or not, I'm positive they do though.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Honestly, I didn't pay attention to the fact that you met up twice. I read, scan, make mental notes of what to comment on and move on. I offer advice on what I see that is important to others and the rest of my posts are basically to give people shit and see if they return said shit. It makes for fun banter. As to the details of your dates or love life, I don't really pay attention to. Not because I'm an asshole....I mean, I'm that too but case in point. The surgeon will be gone in 3 weeks.

Sending an uber to pick up a jacket that you left? I read this as paying someone to take care of an oversight on your end. No respect here. If I make a mistake, forget something, etc. I have to bite the bullet and do whatever necessary to make it right. Choices are: go get the jacket, buy a new one or forget it. He even offered to put it in the mail box so you didn't have to see him, but you can't be bothered to make the drive to get what you want so you pay someone to do it? We as men call these "bitch moves" when men do it. Not sure if women have names for stuff like this or not, I'm positive they do though.

I previously stated that I looked online to purchase another and I can’t find one. I don’t want it left the mailbox for a number of reasons, the mail person may not deliver his mail if a jacket is filling up the whole mail box, it might get stolen, it might get stained, etc.. I was trying to be considerate by asking him to leave it on his porch and he said he was going to throw it away.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

and no adipose tissue.

Anywhere.

None???

Are you SURE it was a woman??