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      02-24-2020, 11:02 AM   #5787
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well what did u say lol
lol just normal getting to know you type talk. I don't talk sexual or send dick pics.
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      02-24-2020, 11:03 AM   #5788
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No but I've had instances of where the convo is going well and all off a sudden the person is unmatched. I'm like wtf we were just talking.... and yes before you ask, totally normal conversation.
She got a couple of morsels of attention from you, and that may very well be her only purpose for being on the site. She's moved on to other sources.
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      02-24-2020, 11:14 AM   #5789
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No but I've had instances of where the convo is going well and all off a sudden the person is unmatched. I'm like wtf we were just talking.... and yes before you ask, totally normal conversation.
SMH why do we bother then?
Because we unfortunately are bored, horny and want to find the right lady.... and we turn to shit apps to find potential answers to our problems lol.

*so far, no luck for the most of us on here lol*
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Because we unfortunately are bored, horny and want to find the right lady.... and we turn to shit apps to find potential answers to our problems lol.

*so far, no luck for the most of us on here lol*
My dude, keep yourself occupied! Have so much shit stressing you out on a daily basis that you don't even time to swipe because you stop taking your phone with you when going to the bathroom!

You know what they say, more espresso less depresso!!!

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      02-24-2020, 01:07 PM   #5791
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She got a couple of morsels of attention from you, and that may very well be her only purpose for being on the site. She's moved on to other sources.
Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.
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My dude, keep yourself occupied! Have so much shit stressing you out on a daily basis that you don't even time to swipe because you stop taking your phone with you when going to the bathroom!

You know what they say, more espresso less depresso!!!

help
If more would do this. I've been through my scenarios more than once on here....but when you really don't give a shit.....you can't get them to leave you alone!

Then that one comes along.....and you find yourself caring after awhile. Then your trapped!
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Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.
Sounds like you may be coming on a little strong, a little too soon. Pace yourself. It's not a race. If it's a good match, a relaxed pace keeps everyone calm. And if it's not a good match, rushing it won't fix it.
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Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.
How often did you text her & did she always reply in a timely manner?
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If more would do this. I've been through my scenarios more than once on here....but when you really don't give a shit.....you can't get them to leave you alone!

Then that one comes along.....and you find yourself caring after awhile. Then your trapped!
I see what you're saying but I feel like I'm at a point where I don't even meet enough new people to create that attraction

Like I'm not not caring because I'm too cool it's literally because I don't even have a reason to care lol I guess I'm just unapproachable for whatever reason because I'm pretty extroverted too
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      02-24-2020, 03:25 PM   #5796
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Sounds like you may be coming on a little strong, a little too soon. Pace yourself. It's not a race. If it's a good match, a relaxed pace keeps everyone calm. And if it's not a good match, rushing it won't fix it.
I'd agree but I'm not coming on strong at all haha. Very strange.
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Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.
How often did you text her & did she always reply in a timely manner?
A few times a day with nothing serious lol. And yes usually she would reply right away. Even asked for snapchat.
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A few times a day with nothing serious lol. And yes usually she would reply right away. Even asked for snapchat.
Wow, talk about mixed signals. Would be really refreshing to run into a woman candid and gutsy enough to say that they didn't think we were a good match for them because we're too good looking, too smart, too funny, too kind, and our schwantzstuckers and wallets are both are too big. But no, the gutless bitches just ghost us.
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A few times a day with nothing serious lol. And yes usually she would reply right away. Even asked for snapchat.
Wow, talk about mixed signals. Would be really refreshing to run into a woman candid and gutsy enough to say that they didn't think we were a good match for them because we're too good looking, too smart, too funny, too kind, and our schwantzstuckers and wallets are both are too big. But no, the gutless bitches just ghost us.
The best part? She is a mental health counselor.
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The best part? She is a mental health counselor.
Oh, well there's your answer. She's just trying to drum up business. Can't fault her for that.
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Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.
ive started to only respond once or twice a day to girls i match with on bumble. it seems to be working pretty well. it leaves them wanting more and gives the impression that i really dont give a shit. ive even had girls start offering me their number so that i can message faster lol. then, when they offer their number i tell them that ill only give them my number if the first date goes well. they eat that shit up.
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Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.
ive started to only respond once or twice a day to girls i match with on bumble. it seems to be working pretty well. it leaves them wanting more and gives the impression that i really dont give a shit. ive even had girls start offering me their number so that i can message faster lol. then, when they offer their number i tell them that ill only give them my number if the first date goes well. they eat that shit up.
You must be a lot better looking than me.

If I do that they just unmatch because they aren't getting enough attention haha.
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A few times a day with nothing serious lol. And yes usually she would reply right away. Even asked for snapchat.
Then she's just an ahole. If she didn't wanna talk, she would not have replied. F her.
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Then she's just an ahole. If she didn't wanna talk, she would not have replied. F her.
Yup, just unfriended her on both snapchat and facebook, which are both things she initially requested after we went for coffee. Also deleted her number. I don't need this kind of negativity in my life.
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Yup, just unfriended her on both snapchat and facebook, which are both things she initially requested after we went for coffee. Also deleted her number. I don't need this kind of negativity in my life.
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better yet put poo in a paper bag, put it on her porch and light it on fire
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