Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

Dang3r · 03-17-2021, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

This appeared in my feed since I'm single again. I'm DQ'd because of her racial bias but I thought I'd pass it along. I'm here to help.

You're welcome.

Wait, wut? Aside from her size and that she have kids, which is enough to me to let her pass - but just the mention that she wanted a 'white' man is racist stuff?
What happened when she'd written 'only black' men? A taste for big schlongs or have it the black on white phrase sh*t? C'mon, thats superficial ain't?

MKSixer · 03-17-2021, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Dang3r

Wait, wut? Aside from her size and that she have kids, which is enough to me to let her pass - but just the mention that she wanted a 'white' man is racist stuff?
What happened when she'd written 'only black' men? A taste for big schlongs or have it the black on white phrase sh*t? C'mon, thats superficial ain't?

I think you're reading too much into this. I said I was DQ'd because of race...not that she was racist.

Dang3r · 03-17-2021, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

I think you're reading too much into this. I said I was DQ'd because of race...not that she was racist.

Maybe. That could be caused by don't know whats DQ'd mean and your text to her probably racial bias. One lead to another but no offense, man.

Buug959 · 03-17-2021, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Dang3r

Maybe. That could be caused by don't know whats DQ'd mean and your text to her probably racial bias. One lead to another but no offense, man.

DQ'd means disqualified.

nyalpine90 · 03-17-2021, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

Had another friend come over for the evening Sunday - now I'm convinced I want to be single forever.

Perhaps I'm just apathetic or lazy, but I have never created a playlist in a music app. Never. I listen to the radio, or a CD. My friend wanted to listen to my jukebox, so I queued up the first 5 CDs. Then it started. "Oh - I don't like this song - skip it". Can't. It's a jukebox. Eventually, we switched to radio. Then it continued "Oh - I don't like this song - skip it". Can't. it's radio. "Do you have Spotify?". No. "Pandora?" No.

She's incredibly demanding that everything has to be just perfectly how she wants it - close that blind, turn the air up, turn the music up, skip this song... I clearly have the wrong friends.

you shouldve said

JP10 · 03-17-2021, 08:52 AM

I'm going to be on the females side this time around dinonz. I don't think any of those requests were outrageous, even in your own house. Hell they sound pretty typical (don't mean this to be offensive in anyway to the females reading the comment). I think majority of the time each request could be handled with a playful comments - like next time bring your own audio equipment followed by a laugh. Idk, I think you're just stuck in your ways and anything that veers you off that path is all the sudden a massively rude request. Obviously need more details, but this is just me reading between the lines. And if you don't want them there then dont invite them over - wasting both of your time.

I saw MK say you deserve better, but I highly doubt that. Those that don't want to put effort into relationships, or even physical appearance to better chances, don't deserve better. You deserve the amount of effort you put in, if that effort is minimal then you don't deserve much. We all know you have put more then most would ever into your career and it has paid dividends. If you were to take a shred of that effort to put it into having a relationship then you'd most likely be doing better on that front. But again, doesnt seem like you want a relationship at all lol.

CTinline-six · 03-17-2021, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Don't feel bad Dang3r I didn't know what DQ meant either. I guess you have to be in possession of the secret dating ring in order to understand the jargon.. hi hi...

I honestly saw DQ and thought he was just talking about Dairy Queen.

Buug959 · 03-17-2021, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Don't feel bad Dang3r I didn't know what DQ meant either. I guess you have to be in possession of the secret dating ring in order to understand the jargon.. hi hi...

I've been out of the dating scene for some years now. I didn't realize it could be used in that context. It seems a little weird to me but whatever. I know it mainly from racing but also from lots of other sports as well. I don't think I want anything to do with a secret dating decoder ring. If that's what it takes now I'm glad I'm out.

Tambohamilton · 03-17-2021, 09:02 AM

Thirded that DQ is not dating slang. It's a very reasonable use of the term though, I think

Tommy-G · 03-17-2021, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

She was perfect. But kinda nutz!!

The crazier they are, the more fun in bed....but can we deal with the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day with them

Dang3r · 03-17-2021, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Don't feel bad Dang3r I didn't know what DQ meant either. I guess you have to be in possession of the secret dating ring in order to understand the jargon.. hi hi...

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

I honestly saw DQ and thought he was just talking about Dairy Queen.

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Originally Posted by LemansE90335xi

I've been out of the dating scene for some years now. I didn't realize it could be used in that context. It seems a little weird to me but whatever. I know it mainly from racing but also from lots of other sports as well. I don't think I want anything to do with a secret dating decoder ring. If that's what it takes now I'm glad I'm out.

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Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Thirded that DQ is not dating slang. It's a very reasonable use of the term though, I think

The council had spoken, DQ isn't an appropriate and usual known abbreviation.

M5Rick · 03-17-2021, 09:37 AM

DQ is an abbreviation that is used in motor racing for disqualified.

Tommy-G · 03-17-2021, 09:48 AM

To me it had to be DQ'ed, otherwise I was pulling out $1.25 for a mint chocolate chip in a sugar cone

vreihen16 · 03-17-2021, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by M5theonlyone

DQ is an abbreviation that is used in motor racing for disqualified.

From someone who has spent many weekends working timing/scoring, let me say that we always used DSQ.

Good thing he didn't use 86 in that post.....

nyalpine90 · 03-17-2021, 10:25 AM

nevermind

M5Rick · 03-17-2021, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by vreihen16

From someone who has spent many weekends working timing/scoring, let me say that we always used DSQ.

Good thing he didn't use 86 in that post.....

In Formula One they shorten things to the bone

but tell me, '86' is alien to me unless it's referring to well.. positions of people

Tambohamilton · 03-17-2021, 10:43 AM

It's like 69, but 17 more??

MKSixer · 03-17-2021, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Dang3r

Maybe. That could be caused by don't know whats DQ'd mean and your text to her probably racial bias. One lead to another but no offense, man.

Disqualified. DQ'd. I didn't text her...that is in her profile. For me she is this:

M5Rick · 03-17-2021, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

It's like 69, but 17 more??

Yes I was thinking along those lines

MKSixer · 03-17-2021, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by LemansE90335xi

DQ'd means disqualified.

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Originally Posted by Dang3r

Maybe. That could be caused by don't know whats DQ'd mean and your text to her probably racial bias. One lead to another but no offense, man.

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Don't feel bad Dang3r I didn't know what DQ meant either. I guess you have to be in possession of the secret dating ring in order to understand the jargon.. hi hi...

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

I honestly saw DQ and thought he was just talking about Dairy Queen.

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Originally Posted by LemansE90335xi

I've been out of the dating scene for some years now. I didn't realize it could be used in that context. It seems a little weird to me but whatever. I know it mainly from racing but also from lots of other sports as well. I don't think I want anything to do with a secret dating decoder ring. If that's what it takes now I'm glad I'm out.

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Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

Thirded that DQ is not dating slang. It's a very reasonable use of the term though, I think

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Originally Posted by Dang3r

The council had spoken, DQ isn't an appropriate and usual known abbreviation.

For all those decrying the utilization of the racing term DQ'd.

1. You're on a BMW site. A sporting car site with a deep racing heritage.
2. Disqualified is a Foundational Racing Term.
3. It is not unreasonable to think that since items 1 and 2 are present, anyone partaking on this board would know what DQ'd means.
4. If you don't know, ask and don't make assumptions of racism.
5. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY...it was funny as heck. Please remove all sticks and other implements from anyone's butts who are taking this too seriously. I even put the

emoji there. As far as I know, it's NEVER used seriously...at least not by me

On a BMW site and doesn't know what DQ'd means. SMFH

Cheers-MK

MKSixer · 03-17-2021, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by vreihen16

From someone who has spent many weekends working timing/scoring, let me say that we always used DSQ.

Good thing he didn't use 86 in that post.....

DSQ is the more modern equivalent.

86'd...now you're just stirring the pot!! Well done, sir!!

cmyx6go · 03-17-2021, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

For all those decrying the utilization of the racing term DQ'd.

1. You're on a BMW site. A sporting car site with a deep racing heritage.
2. Disqualified is a Foundational Racing Term.
3. It is not unreasonable to think that since items 1 and 2 are present, anyone partaking on this board would know what DQ'd means.
4. If you don't know, ask and don't make assumptions of racism.
5. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY...it was funny as heck. Please remove all sticks and other implements from anyone's butts who are taking this too seriously. I even put the

emoji there. As far as I know, it's NEVER used seriously...at least not by me

On a BMW site and doesn't know what DQ'd means. SMFH

Cheers-MK

Even I knew what it meant.

03-17-2021, 08:52 AM	#8388
JP10 Major 2465 Rep 1,144 Posts Drives: M3 Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: SC iTrader: (0)	I'm going to be on the females side this time around dinonz. I don't think any of those requests were outrageous, even in your own house. Hell they sound pretty typical (don't mean this to be offensive in anyway to the females reading the comment). I think majority of the time each request could be handled with a playful comments - like next time bring your own audio equipment followed by a laugh. Idk, I think you're just stuck in your ways and anything that veers you off that path is all the sudden a massively rude request. Obviously need more details, but this is just me reading between the lines. And if you don't want them there then dont invite them over - wasting both of your time. I saw MK say you deserve better, but I highly doubt that. Those that don't want to put effort into relationships, or even physical appearance to better chances, don't deserve better. You deserve the amount of effort you put in, if that effort is minimal then you don't deserve much. We all know you have put more then most would ever into your career and it has paid dividends. If you were to take a shred of that effort to put it into having a relationship then you'd most likely be doing better on that front. But again, doesnt seem like you want a relationship at all lol.
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