[Lups]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

And hence Lups has no car to talk about, this would went rude anyway

Gimme something to buy, I'll have a car. Currently I have zero interest in anything, has been so since Peter.
I'm involved in a youth rally car project and another for 17 year olds.
" Sometimes I feel like I'm beatin' a dead horse
I don't know why you'd be bringin' me down
I'd like to think that our love's worth a tad more
It may sound funny but you'd think by now
I'd be smilin'"

Yeah. I'd hate to say this guys, but I think I'm done with cars.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Lups

Gimme something to buy, I'll have a car. Currently I have zero interest in anything, has been so since Peter.
I'm involved in a youth rally car project and another for 17 year olds.
" Sometimes I feel like I'm beatin' a dead horse
I don't know why you'd be bringin' me down
I'd like to think that our love's worth a tad more
It may sound funny but you'd think by now
I'd be smilin'"

Yeah. I'd hate to say this guys, but I think I'm done with cars.

I admit I'm waiting to see and drive the new Audi RS3. I like the sound of the 5 cylinder engine in the previous generation, but hoping they come out with a performance version of it around 450 hp. That would be almost a slam dunk for me.

But I just signed a 2 year lease on a Silverado 1500 Trail Boss. I think a pickup will be good to shove bicycles and skis into as a family. Might just buy a pickup next time if I find we are really using it.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I admit I'm waiting to see and drive the new Audi RS3. I like the sound of the 5 cylinder engine in the previous generation, but hoping they come out with a performance version of it around 450 hp. That would be almost a slam dunk for me.

But I just signed a 2 year lease on a Silverado 1500 Trail Boss. I think a pickup will be good to shove bicycles and skis into as a family. Might just buy a pickup next time if I find we are really using it.

I do believe I have an email to return to you. Send me one and I'll write you our autumn since even my email is fucked.

Trust me, you'll be proud of me. I've been good.

[///d]

Originally Posted by heitzke

Finally have a good one to add again haha. Had a really nice second date and a first kiss with a lovely woman here last night. She's very interesting, a little soft spoken, but is a chemist from Australia. Been here in the states just coming on the 2yr mark (what a time to be here lol)

Genuine, good conversation about all kinds of things and thankfully she's very open-minded when it comes to that fact that i'm partnered/poly, etc. She's never really been around it much, but finds it interesting.

One thing i've enjoyed is the low amount of emotional expenditure the relationship takes. She's a terrible texter and hates phones, so we'll exchange 2-3 texts a day MAYBE. She doesn't require mass amounts of attention to know you're interested. We basically just make plans for a few days into the future and then meet up to talk for a few hours.

Very casual and fits in nicely with my existing relationship. It doesn't feel like too much to balance and they're not competing at all.

oohhh that Australian accent

[heitzke]

Originally Posted by ///d

oohhh that Australian accent

That's absolute damn truth right here lol. The first time we met up in-person and she started talking

[Mein11]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I admit I'm waiting to see and drive the new Audi RS3. I like the sound of the 5 cylinder engine in the previous generation, but hoping they come out with a performance version of it around 450 hp. That would be almost a slam dunk for me.

But I just signed a 2 year lease on a Silverado 1500 Trail Boss. I think a pickup will be good to shove bicycles and skis into as a family. Might just buy a pickup next time if I find we are really using it.

New cars and trucks just don't do it for me. Bought the Colorado because the tech from 5 years ago isn't as bad as all the 2019+. Gonna suck in another 5 years when it needs replaced as everything will be computerized.

Once you have a pickup you'll find more ways of using it. Got a tri-fold aluminum rear cover so great for when it rains and still having a full "trunk" space and open rear seats for passengers. Only thing I don't like is going downtown because parking can be a bitch.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Mein11

New cars and trucks just don't do it for me. Bought the Colorado because the tech from 5 years ago isn't as bad as all the 2019+. Gonna suck in another 5 years when it needs replaced as everything will be computerized.

Once you have a pickup you'll find more ways of using it. Got a tri-fold aluminum rear cover so great for when it rains and still having a full "trunk" space and open rear seats for passengers. Only thing I don't like is going downtown because parking can be a bitch.

Yeah, I hear you on parking. I don't have a tonneau cover yet, am debating on getting one at all. It will cost $1,300 for a hard one, but I only have this for 2 years, so seems ridiculous. Might see if there are any used ones.

Only reason I might want it is like you - gives me bed space and also so the bed doesn't fill up with snow and ice.

[Mein11]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Yeah, I hear you on parking. I don't have a tonneau cover yet, am debating on getting one at all. It will cost $1,300 for a hard one, but I only have this for 2 years, so seems ridiculous. Might see if there are any used ones.

Only reason I might want it is like you - gives me bed space and also so the bed doesn't fill up with snow and ice.

The aluminum tri-fold I got was around $800. Can have it on/off in about 10 minutes, held with 4 screw clamps near the rear. I will say, some water does get in around the corners so not 100% sealed. If you can't find a used one, I'm sure if you bought you could sell easily if you have a standard bed.

https://gatorcovers.com/p/gator-efx-...BoCk2kQAvD_BwE

[Alfisti]

Originally Posted by heitzke

That's absolute damn truth right here lol. The first time we met up in-person and she started talking

That's what got me in trouble, next thing i know I am shoveling snow ffs.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Lups

Gimme something to buy, I'll have a car. Currently I have zero interest in anything, has been so since Peter.
I'm involved in a youth rally car project and another for 17 year olds.
" Sometimes I feel like I'm beatin' a dead horse
I don't know why you'd be bringin' me down
I'd like to think that our love's worth a tad more
It may sound funny but you'd think by now
I'd be smilin'"

Yeah. I'd hate to say this guys, but I think I'm done with cars.

Don't make me disown you…..

[Ric in RVA]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Yeah, I hear you on parking. I don't have a tonneau cover yet, am debating on getting one at all. It will cost $1,300 for a hard one, but I only have this for 2 years, so seems ridiculous. Might see if there are any used ones.

Only reason I might want it is like you - gives me bed space and also so the bed doesn't fill up with snow and ice.

FB marketplace...I found one for my F150 fast and about half of retail. Met the guy half way and swapped it off his truck to mine. Locks. Super strong. heavy as hell though. wife can't open it.

[King Rudi]

I ended the 6 year relationship with the now ex-girlfriend yesterday. I want to be somewhat sad about it, I just can't be. Things haven't been what they should for a while now. Shit escalated Sunday afternoon into a full-blown argument which resulted in her leaving and "cooling down." We didn't talk much Sunday night and now when she speaks to me it's screaming like a banshee. Yeah, she can keep that shit.

Our relationship has made me feel hollow for a while now. I explained it to her and rather than her trying to explain anything to make me feel better about it, all she wanted to do was yell at me for it. Next.

[________]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I ended the 6 year relationship with the now ex-girlfriend yesterday. I want to be somewhat sad about it, I just can't be. Things haven't been what they should for a while now. Shit escalated Sunday afternoon into a full-blown argument which resulted in her leaving and "cooling down." We didn't talk much Sunday night and now when she speaks to me it's screaming like a banshee. Yeah, she can keep that shit.

Our relationship has made me feel hollow for a while now. I explained it to her and rather than her trying to explain anything to make me feel better about it, all she wanted to do was yell at me for it. Next.

Sorry to hear.

Just be cool, you never know. Relationships are hard. After the dust settles maybe you guys will find a way to talk and resolve, or really be sure you are through. You guys had a good time, we heard all about it. If it ends, some good memories will remain.

Hope you guys find peace for a bit.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I ended the 6 year relationship with the now ex-girlfriend yesterday. I want to be somewhat sad about it, I just can't be. Things haven't been what they should for a while now. Shit escalated Sunday afternoon into a full-blown argument which resulted in her leaving and "cooling down." We didn't talk much Sunday night and now when she speaks to me it's screaming like a banshee. Yeah, she can keep that shit.

Our relationship has made me feel hollow for a while now. I explained it to her and rather than her trying to explain anything to make me feel better about it, all she wanted to do was yell at me for it. Next.

Always just a PM away if you need to vent or chat. Sorry to hear, relationships are rarely easy. Married couples go through it too...nobody is exempt. Hurts too.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Onesie

Sorry to hear.

Just be cool, you never know. Relationships are hard. After the dust settles maybe you guys will find a way to talk and resolve, or really be sure you are through. You guys had a good time, we heard all about it. If it ends, some good memories will remain.

Hope you guys find peace for a bit.

I've been extremely patient and consistent with her. Things that women before most certainly did not get. She's a wonderful person and I've grown a lot just by being with her. Will always think fondly of her and wish her the best, but the emotional immaturity just can not be overlooked any longer.

If two people have a disagreement, they can talk like adults and sort things out, or one person can continue to drag the situation on for as long as they possibly can until the other has just had enough. I've had enough. I'm already at peace. I wish that she could find it. I must be the strangest ex-boyfriend on the planet; I've called her twice since yesterday to check on her, make sure she is ok and to listen is she needed to clear the air on her end.

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Always just a PM away if you need to vent or chat. Sorry to hear, relationships are rarely easy. Married couples go through it too...nobody is exempt. Hurts too.

Thank you Joe. Appreciate you. This relationship was the easiest and the emptiest that I've had to date. I feel partially responsible. I should have ended it a long time ago.

[Mein11]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I ended the 6 year relationship with the now ex-girlfriend yesterday. I want to be somewhat sad about it, I just can't be. Things haven't been what they should for a while now. Shit escalated Sunday afternoon into a full-blown argument which resulted in her leaving and "cooling down." We didn't talk much Sunday night and now when she speaks to me it's screaming like a banshee. Yeah, she can keep that shit.

Our relationship has made me feel hollow for a while now. I explained it to her and rather than her trying to explain anything to make me feel better about it, all she wanted to do was yell at me for it. Next.

That's the exact same way mine ended after 6 years. Years later there were things that I could have probably done to better de-escalate those types of arguments, but whatever. Like you said, being spoken to like that by your significant other is bullshit and not normal or healthy.

You got a good head on your shoulders. Press on and keep doing good things in life.

[Alfisti]

At some point, the question needs to be asked why so many women seem so angry in their relationships. There are a lot of jokes about this, happy wife, happy life etc, or men in the "dog house" etc, but this theme is there, this theme of woman cracking the shits.

[Mein11]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

At some point, the question needs to be asked why so many women seem so angry in their relationships. There are a lot of jokes about this, happy wife, happy life etc, or men in the "dog house" etc, but this theme is there, this theme of woman cracking the shits.

Some people, men and women alike, do not know how to voice the things that are truly bothering them in a healthy manner. Instead they lash, yell, and begrudge the other person, and generally, the other person just concedes that this is the way things are. Sometimes starts small and grows, or is that way from the get-go and is the status quo.

So while they may not be angry in their relationship, they may be angry at certain aspects of it and do not address it properly.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Mein11

That's the exact same way mine ended after 6 years. Years later there were things that I could have probably done to better de-escalate those types of arguments, but whatever. Like you said, being spoken to like that by your significant other is bullshit and not normal or healthy.

You got a good head on your shoulders. Press on and keep doing good things in life.

Thank you sir. I do what I can and strive for what I can't. If a person considers my posts on here, this is what I'm like irl. I'm quick and the tongue is razor sharp. I can't tell you how many times I've heard, "I can't believe you just said that!"

The way I see things is that when problems arise, communication is key. Talking things out amicably and finding a resolution quickly seems like the responsible thing to do. It seems like she just wanted to be in control and string me along/torment me in the process. Wrong melon farmer.

Originally Posted by Mein11

Some people, men and women alike, do not know how to voice the things that are truly bothering them in a healthy manner. Instead they lash, yell, and begrudge the other person, and generally, the other person just concedes that this is the way things are. Sometimes starts small and grows, or is that way from the get-go and is the status quo.

So while they may not be angry in their relationship, they may be angry at certain aspects of it and do not address it properly.

100% accurate. Insecurity is what it screams to me. The e was great in 90% of all aspects. Her inability control her emotions was what bit her in this situation. Trying to force an emotionally mature person into something, by yelling at them is like trying to kill a mosquito with a missile.

I also know some loud individuals who just happened to grow up in a home where the parents where shouting at each other constantly. that is just simply being conditioned from an early age.

Regardless of origin, it's completely unacceptable behavior.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I ended the 6 year relationship with the now ex-girlfriend yesterday. I want to be somewhat sad about it, I just can't be. Things haven't been what they should for a while now. Shit escalated Sunday afternoon into a full-blown argument which resulted in her leaving and "cooling down." We didn't talk much Sunday night and now when she speaks to me it's screaming like a banshee. Yeah, she can keep that shit.

Our relationship has made me feel hollow for a while now. I explained it to her and rather than her trying to explain anything to make me feel better about it, all she wanted to do was yell at me for it. Next.

I completely understand my friend; today marks the 2nd week of "I want to be sad but I can't, shit just wasnt the same" for me.


Wish you the best, please know I am a PM/text/etc away.

[Mingwan]

Maybe someone here can chime in on this. What is it with women’s infatuation with animals? Cats in particular. Reading through a bunch of various posts on different forums, I found it quite alarming that women would chose their cat over their significant other they supposedly love, especially if their SO has an issue with cats due to medical reasons, i.e. severe allergies to cats. Does that strike anyone else as being fucked?

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

We didn't talk much Sunday night and now when she speaks to me it's screaming like a banshee. Yeah, she can keep that shit.

Yes she sure can. Was this a common occurrence?