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Originally Posted by MKSixer
...I'm a little too inquisitive for that plan to have worked for her.
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This is my MO as well. I want to get to know the woman, and I apply the same curiosity that I have about everyone, and the world in general. If there are deal-breakers or a steaming pile of crazy, I want to know up front.
Healthy people find it flattering when you want to get to know them. The recent ex remarked many times that my persistence and curiosity were very attractive and flattering.
Paranoid people, shallow people, and shady motherfuckers will dodge my curiosity, which gives me the clarity I need to disconnect from them.