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Originally Posted by e90335e36m3
I hope your strategy for making money/professional success is not the same as it is on women/relationships. "My terms or no terms" seldom works in any aspect of life, including relationships. The most successful people master compromise. Those who cannot or refuse to generally don't make meaningful contributions to the lives of others because they cannot see past themselves and what they need/want, unless on some superficial level those needs/wants align.
Just curious, how old are you?
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your assumption is that my way makes no room for compromise. it does,
In my way there are things negotiable and there are things non negotiable.
I lay my cards on the table and it's left to the woman to decide whether what I offer is a good or great deal for her or if it isnt.
My terms or no terms works VERY WELL
1. if you know the value of what you have on offer
2. if you dont over value or fool yourself
3. if you are not desperate and know where to compromise and where not to
take for example, this is a car forum
you have an E90 M3, with 50K miles valued colorway, slicktop, no accidents
you are selling for $30K..........market value or even a little below
would you have someone offer you 20K or 22K when you know the car is valued at 30K+ and to wait for the right buyer will get you what its worth?
maybe you are selling not because you need the money but because you just dont drive it enough and want something else.
Age..........45
two kids
was married for 12 years/ divorced
dating now a nice 27 year old fashion model to whom Im quite a benevolent dictator and she is loving it