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Originally Posted by 2one3E90
Why do people divorce so much. Cant couples just talk it out now? So sad why does everyone give up!
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Because it takes two. I stuck it out longer than I should have. My ex spent years mentally abusing me. It took a lot of inner strength to pull myself out of that dark space. She was the one that wanted to separate twice. She was the one out clubbing doing who knows what. She finally forced my hand when things went downhill with my relationship with my daughter. She claims she did nothing to make our daughter behave badly around me. I think otherwise. Especially, when I said I wanted to get professional help to figure out what is going on. She said nothing is wrong and she's fine. That finally made me go seek legal help.
Plus it's very telling when a Catholic priest didn't even talk me out of filing. He was my last gut check before signing and submitting the papers.