[floridaorange]

Thank you - some good reality checks here - I think logically 2 is just much safer - as pointed out - we do have harmony now. My sister has 4. We grew up in a family of 3, almost 4, but the 4th didn’t make it during the birth and frankly we do have 1 sibling in my childhood family that suffers from mental health issues from time to time.

A side note, my bestfriends middle brother had his 8th child a yr ago at like 44 yrs of age, so…