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I'm not sure how much money you're talking about, or whose bills got paid with the refi $. Or how you are going about cashing out. Is it based on her paying you half of the "value" of the house?
I will give you the best advise I DIDN'T take but wish I did. Put your emotions to the side and deal with it like a business decision. It's really hard to do when you are in the moment.
If it's not a lot of money, just be done with it and move on. It's going to cost you money with lawyers to fight it out and is an emotional drain. Cut the ties and go on with your life. Just make sure when all is said and done you are off the mortgage.
Good luck!
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