[obert]

I am trying to wrap my head around this situation I am in.

I got a divorce and part of the divorce was we sell the house and split the proceeds 50/50 or she would cash me out and the home is 100% hers.

She got into some trouble with the house and the payment was going to go up a lot because of forced escrow. So we did a refi to get out of the forced escrow situation and get the monthly payment back down to a manageable payment. We decided that we would pay off some bills as well with the refi that some that we had together and some that we didn’t.

Now the tricky part. She is trying to cash me out so she can be 100% owner. She feels that I should have to pay her back my portion of the previous refi since this next refi will be her loan. I am telling her no way because I am getting less money from her for the cash out that she is trying to do now.

Thoughts and questions please!!!