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I'm over 50 and I might get my stuff together next year.
Nah, probably not.
The reality is that everyone has their own pace, own desires, own demons, and their own control over all of that. Some people always have it together. Some people never will. As long as your brother is taking care of himself by not being a burden to someone else, then he is succeeding in my view.
20 years old is the still the beginning of life. Yes, legally he is an adult, but there are very few 20 year olds who act like adults, are responsible like adults, and who know their path.
Give your brother encouragement, advice, and time. When he wants to listen, tell him things you wish you knew at his age.
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