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Originally Posted by Rich150001
Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?
1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into
I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!
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She must have been some kind of amazing to even temp you, but no - just no.